Toronto is in mourning after a 25-year-old man drove a van down Yonge Street, hitting many pedestrians in the process, earlier this week.
Alek Minassian has been arrested for running down ten people, mostly women, and injuring 14 more before police managed to stop him. Even more miraculous, they managed to take him alive.
The victims are being publicly identified as the days go on. So far Sohe Chung, Anne Marie D’Amico, Dorothy Sewell, Munir Najjar, Chul Min “Eddie” Kang, Betty Forsyth and Renuka Amarasinghe have been named. Read the Toronto Star’s ongoing article about the victims here.
Of course the cries that Minassian was Muslim and immigrant terrorism and blah blah blah came pouring out on social media, but imagine those folks’ surprise to find out that Minassian was a man who hated women because he felt they owed him sex and wouldn’t give it up.
Racists going silent now that the Toronto attacker isn’t middle eastern, was an angry man, who frequented alt right sites and was angry because he couldn’t get laid.
An angry, right wing misogynist, Incel, as in Involuntary Celibate.
An angry asshole who couldn’t get laid
— HairyKiwi (@hairykiwi420) April 24, 2018
Minassian was self-described as “incel,” which is a short form of “involuntarily celibate.” There’s a small corner of the “manosphere” as I’ve seen it called where these men gather to lament their lack of sexual experience and blame not only women, but also other men that do actually manage to have sex with women. Those men clearly brainwash the women into the sack, because why else would a woman choose one of THOSE men over an online community of man-children that compare a woman’s labia to a roast beef sandwich?
Oh, and they also blame feminism. Of course they do.
A news outlet found a Facebook post by Minassian about “the incel rebellion” and praising Isla Vista shooter Elliot Rodger and confirmed it was legit.
Once it was confirmed, hot takes and think pieces linking Minassian to these hate groups started popping up all over social media. I am LOATHE that news sites have a photo of Rodger in their story links. It sends a bad chill down my spine, likely stemming from reading his so-called manifesto a few years ago for my take on what happened in Isla Vista. You can read that take here, if you’re so inclined. I couldn’t even finish manifesto, it made me physically ill. As did looking into the “incel” community—it’s hard to fathom that such hate exists, but there is was, all on the internet for anyone to find.
So to hear that another one of these so-called “incel” men were responsible for the injury and death of so many people in my own country just causes that bile to rise once again. It’s terrifying to see that these men are becoming emboldened enough to murder people due to their entitlement issues.
I would just like to say, as a woman over 40, on behalf of all women over 40 everywhere, that people have been declaring us unfuckable for centuries and we are not murdering anyone about it.
— nobody’s tweetheart (@girlpublisher) April 25, 2018
Some folks are coming out that Minassian is autistic, as if that absolves him somehow. There are plenty of autistic people in the world that DON’T murder people, so that’s literally no excuse. Trying to claim mental health as a reason for violent behaviour is bullshit—yes, these men CLEARLY have more than a few issues they need to work through, but it’s not mental illness.
as a woman, it’s real weird to go your entire life being told “you’re not getting dates with men or a boyfriend because you’re too weird/ugly/fat/boring” and find out a lot of men just feel entitled to sex, dates and love for whomever they are
— White Guy Confidence (@karenkho) April 26, 2018
Since Minassian was taken alive, there’s hope that maybe the powers that be can gain a little insight into the “incel” mindset and maybe explain to him and others within this little groups as to why this worldview is completely ass-backwards. Also throw his ass in prison for life to hopefully deter any other member of this “incel rebellion” from trying something similar.
It’s likely little comfort to the families of those who were killed, but I think we all hold out hope that justice will be served in this case.
Just to drive the point home, as many other women out there have said, boys, we do not owe you sex. We don’t owe you dates, or a smile, or a kind word, or the time of day. Women owe you NOTHING. Let me say that again: WOMEN OWE YOU NOTHING! Get it through your fucking skulls already.
The tweets you linked about being unfuckable after a certain age, or not being able to get a boyfriend because you’re too whatever, are things that I’ve been thinking of a lot following this event. It’s terrifying to me that there are people in my country that think like this – so backwards, so WRONG.
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It’s nauseating to think that there are men you pass on the street that believe this bullshit.
Makes me sad to see this, hoping the men who are insulted by that ridiculous attitude of women owing sex to men, will be able to help. I think respectful men are in the majority, and this type of crime will encourage them to speak up.
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